I will never forget the first time I met my extended family. I was very nervous because I did not know what their reaction would be about me.
They were waiting for me with a very delicious meal. My brothers and sister law who live in different cities were there to meet me. That gesture was very important to me because they made me feel that I was important to them. I spoke very little and felt that everyone was watching me. They all seemed to take turns asking me different kinds of questions.
After a few hours I was more comfortable and more relaxed. They made me felt part of them.
I can say that my husband’s family became my family since the first day. I won a father, a mother and two brothers, and one sister. Our relationship is very good, I am thankful for that.
I have always known that we have differences, but I have learned to love them with their differences. as we read in the article, “Creating Healthy Ties with In-Laws and Extended Families”. “Marrying into a family that is different from yours or has different values can be a challenge. Demonstrating humor, exercising patience, overlooking small irritations, and looking for the positive can help in dealing with differences. “
Building a close relationship with my in-laws is important to me because it maintains an atmosphere of peace and love in my family. Therefore, it makes my husband and my children happy. This also allows my marriage to be stronger and makes our time with my extended family more pleasant and allows a great communication between my children and them. A strong family unit helps my children know and love their aunts and uncles, and all their cousins, and above all, love and respect their grandparents. Also, receiving the love of their grandparents and uncles help my children to know the importance of the family, and they may feel additional security, or maybe feel more confident talking about things that they may not talk to us as a parent.
I love my extended family and I am grateful for them and their love for me and my family. I’m so glad to have them in my life.